What three words should you never say?
Let me clarify: You should never say these three words in succession.
It’s been a while since I’ve made a puzzle post.
I put some lines of text here.
To try to create some space between the puzzle…
…and the answer.
So if you don’t want to bump into the answer…
…then scroll back up until you’re ready.
There is a little history to this puzzle. Let me describe this to provide a little extra space between the puzzle and the answer.
Maybe it will also provide a bit of a hint, if you want one.
When I was in junior high school, one of our teachers preached to us to never say these words.
Unfortunately, it was natural for us to say these words.
So we heard his admonishment regularly.
And it worked. I remember it today whenever I hear these three words.
It’s a very common expression.
Ready or not, here comes the answer.
Perhaps with a bit of irony.
If you felt that you couldn’t figure it out, you probably did.
Did you find yourself thinking, “I don’t know”?
If so, then by not knowing, you actually solved the puzzle.
The answer is: I don’t know.
Those are the three words you should never say.
Why should you never say, “I don’t know”?
Let me first explain what the answer isn’t. It doesn’t mean you should know the answer to every question. That would be impossible.
Sure, you should strive to be well-prepared so that you don’t find yourself thinking, “I don’t know,” when your credibility is at stake.
But the reason that you should never say, “I don’t know,” goes much deeper.
These are wasted words. I don’t know. If you don’t answer the question directly, it’s obvious that you don’t know.
It’s not helping the inquirer advance toward a solution.
Be resourceful. Think of ways to help. Consider how to go about finding the answer. This kind of thinking is productive. Thinking, “I don’t know,” isn’t productive.
Suppose you have a problem and you really need help finding the solution. But you’re pretty sure nobody you know has the answer. Who will you ask for help?
The kind of person who always has helpful advice, even when he or she doesn’t know the answer. That’s who.
Not the kind of person who instinctively answers, “I don’t know.”
It’s about credibility, branding your reputation, feeling self-confident, improving your resourcefulness.
These are all valuable skills. If you avoid those three words, “I don’t know,” it helps you build these valuable skills.
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